So the morning after we returned from our three-day trip I was sleeping peacefully in bed

baby sleeping

When suddenly and without warning I woke up


Because I needed to get to the bathroom IMMEDIATELY (I safely made it). I still went to work that day, but it was an uncomfortable day.  And the following two days I stayed at home. At this point the storm has mostly passed (I think. Hope.) but it involved some… less than ideal moments.  I suppose I’ve joined a long and storied tradition of travelers finding themselves similarly indisposed while living abroad, so I like to see the humor in it.

So as a result of spending an extended period of time sitting in a particular small room of my apartment, this week’s post is much less action-packed and much more reflective than previous weeks. If you therefore want to skim over it, I’ll understand.
One of the things I did to occupy myself was I read a book my roommate lent me titled The Places in Between by Rory Stewart.  The book relates the author’s experiences walking from Herat to Kabul, Afghanistan in the early months of 2002.  It was a really interesting read, and an insightful look into the modern and historical peoples of Afghanistan. Afghanistan is remarkable in its heterogeneity: the diversity of ethnic groups and tribes is striking.  For centuries – no, millenia, Afghanistan has been the highway for conquering armies traveling across Eurasia. The Greeks, Persians, Mongols, and Arabs, just to name a few, have at one time or another swept through conquering and leaving behind permanent tokens of their varied cultures. These tokens consist not only in archaeological remains, but also the very people themselves who are still living there.
It has made me somewhat contemplative as I’ve interacted with others in the last few days about people’s faces.  That’s sounds a little strange.  What I mean though is as the author of The Places in Between moves from one region of Afghanistan to another, he encounters various ethnic groups: Tajiks, Aimaq, Hazara, Pashto being among the most notable.  The book includes simple portrait sketches he makes of some of the people he meets and stays with.  It’s fascinating to me how these people, and really all people everywhere, tie into history.  This man in this village perhaps looks just like a great Persian prince of the Safavid Empire, while this other man in this other village bears the distinctive features of Genghis’ invading Mongols.  Perhaps also because this past week I was preparing to give a talk in church about genealogy, I am just amazed at the strength of the connections between us and our distant forebears, in terms of physical resemblance as well as temperament, life-views, mannerisms, etc. But especially this week I’ve been wondering about faces.  Am I wearing the same face as some distant ancestor of mine? And this man I pass in the street, did someone who looked just like him once walk this same ground centuries ago? I realize it’s silly to think about, because what does that have to do with anything, but there you are.
On a rather different note, another part of the book caught my attention.  I don’t want to give the wrong impression, I’m extremely grateful for the opportunity I’ve had to be here this summer, and I’ve had numerous unforgettable experiences.  However, I’m a little surprised to find that, with just under two weeks left, I’m really looking forward to coming back home. Last fall at two weeks before leaving I was certainly not ready to head back to the States.  But this time I can hardly wait.  I think the difference can be attributed to a few things, but primary among them is perhaps that I’m sick of working in a bureaucratic institution.  As the author enters Kabul at the end of his journey, he relates finding several Western and Western-influenced policy makers working on various projects in the months following the fall of the Taliban.  If you’ll indulge me, I’d like to quote at length from his account:

“I doubted the new policy makers in Kabul understood much of this [the complicating differences between the various tribes and ethnic groups]… I now had half a dozen friends working in Afghanistan in embassies, think tanks, international development agencies, the United Nations, and the Afghan government, controlling projects worth millions of dollars. A year before, they had been in Kosovo or East Timor and a year later they would be in Iraq or offices in New York and Washington.

“Their objective was (to quote the United Nations Assistance Mission in Afghanistan) ‘the creation of a centralized, broad-based, multi-ethnic government committed to democracy, human rights, and the rule of law.’ They worked twelve- or fourteen-hour days drafting documents for heavily funded initiatives on ‘democratization,’ ‘enhancing capacity,’ ‘gender,’ ‘sustainable development,’ ‘skills training,’ or ‘protection issues.’ They were mostly in their late twenties or early thirties, with at least two degrees – often in international law, economics, or development. They came from middle-class backgrounds in Western countries, and in the evenings they dined with each other and swapped anecdotes about the corruption in the government and the incompetence of the United Nations. They rarely drove their SUVs outside Kabul because their security advisers forbade it.

“Some, such as the two political officers in Chaghcharan, were experienced and well-informed about conditions in rural Afghanistan. But they were barely fifty out of many thousands. Most of the policy makers knew next to nothing about the villages where 90 percent of the Afghan population lived. They came from postmodern, secular, globalized states with liberal traditions in law and government. It was natural for them to initiate projects on urban design, women’s rights, and fiber-optic cable networks; to talk about transparent, clean, and accountable processes, tolerance, and civil society; and to speak of a people ‘who desire peace at any cost and understand the need for a centralized multi-ethnic government.’

“But what did they understand of the thought processes of Seyyed Kerbalahi’s wife, who had not moved five kilometers from her home in forty years? Or Dr. Habibullah, the vet, who carried an automatic weapon the way they carried briefcases? The villagers I had met were mostly illiterate, lived far from electricity or television, and knew very little about the outside world. Versions of Islam; views of ethnicity, government, politics, and the proper methods of dispute resolution (including armed conflict); and the experience of twenty-five years of war differed from region to region. The people of Kamenj understood political powers in terms of their feudal lord Haji Mohsin Khan. Ismail Khan in Herat wanted a political system based on Iranian political Islam. Hazara such as Ali hated the idea of centralized government because they associated it with subjugation by other ethnic groups and suffering under the Taliban. Even within a week’s walk I had encountered  areas where the local Bergs had been toppled by Iranian-influenced social revolution and others where feudal structures were still in place; areas where the violence had been inflicted by the Taliban and areas where the villagers had inflicted it on one another.  These differences between groups were deep, elusive, and difficult to overcome.  Village democracy, gender issues, and centralization would be hard-to-sell concepts in some area.

“Policy makers did not have the time, structures, or resources for a serious study of an alien culture.  They justified their lack of knowledge and experience by focusing on poverty and implying that dramatic cultural difference did not exist. They acted as though villagers were interested in all the priorities of international organizations, even when those priorities were mutually contradictory.

“In a seminar in Kabul, I heard Mary Robinson, the UN High Commissioner for Human Rights, say, ‘Afghans have been fighting for their human rights for twenty-five years. We don’t need to tell them what their rights are.’ Then the head of a major food agency added privately, ‘Villagers are not interested in human rights. They are like poor people all over the world. All they think about is where their next meal is coming from.’ To which the head of an Afghan NGO providing counseling responded, ‘The only thing to know about these people is that they are suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder.’

“The differences between the policy makers and a Hazara such as Ali went much deeper than his lack of food. Ali rarely worried about his next meal.  He was a peasant farmer and had a better idea than most about where his next meal was coming from. If he defined himself it was chiefly as a Muslim and a Hazara, not as a hungry Afghan. Without the time, imagination, and persistence needed to understand Afghans’ diverse experiences, policy makers would find it impossible to change Afghan society in the way they wished to change it.”

I feel like this offers a very broadly applicable concept based on a rather specific case.  The specific case is Afghanistan, and I could say a lot about how the frustrating situation in Afghanistan today is little helped and often harmed by the scores of bureaucrats who are still plaguing the country with their uninformed policies.  The broader concept though very aptly describes so much of what I despise about so many of the formal institutions in the world that are mucking things up with their projects and initiatives and task forces that speak of lofty ideals and aspirations and ultimately accomplish few positive changes, if any at all.  I’ve been spending my whole summer working in just such an institution and it’s maddening to me.  We spend our days typing into machines and pushing pieces of paper from one desk to the other, and from all that I can see, it amounts to so very little.  I can go work at the orphanage for a few days and clearly see ways of improving its operation and the standard of living for both the employees and the children.  Some of these improvements might even be fairly simple to implement.  But when I return to the ministry there’s a maze of procedures to be followed and reports to be submitted before any changes can be made, and anywhere along the line a paper might get stopped on a certain person’s desk and the whole process of bringing about a single, simple, yet significant improvement comes to a halt. I’m not blaming any particular person. The people I work with are, for the most part, very kind, nice, intelligent, well-intentioned people.  But they’re bureaucrats, through and through.  And I hate bureaucracy. So I’m ready to come home and be done with the Ministry of Social Development.
The other thing that somewhat concerns me from Rory Stewart’s account of the international policy makers he finds in Kabul is I think my major at school is exactly the kind of major that produces exactly the sorts of people he describes.  I feel like if all my degree is setting me up for is a career like that I’d be better off dropping out of school now.  Luckily, I think my degree is setting me up for more than just that kind of career so I’m gonna stick it out til graduation.  And then I can follow my own career plans.  Most likely in the Army.  Yeah, the Army.  Cuz we all know the Army is an institution free of frustratingly terrible bureaucratic processes.  I’m gonna go have a good cry now.
Seriously though, I wonder a lot about how to forge a career in the future where I can use these experiences I’ve had to make a positive difference in this crazy world without getting mired in all the bunk.  I think the answer, as essentially all answers do, lies in looking to the Savior.  The influence of His life’s work cannot be estimated.  How much time did He spend working on large-scale, heavily-funded social projects? How many government-sponsored initiatives or task forces did He head up? That wasn’t at all the way He operated.  His impact came personally, individually.  Most often, He ministered to small groups or individuals.  No one’s life was changed by a project proposal drafted by Jesus, but many were changed by hearing His voice, looking into His eyes, and feeling His love and care for them.  I think that whatever my life’s work is, it will work similarly.  Though, despite my efforts, I haven’t had any sort of impact on the orphanage as an institution, I’d like to think I’ve had a positive impact on individual children there.  In the same sort of way, whatever I end up doing with my life, I doubt I will be a power player in large-scale events, but I hope that by living a Christ-centered life there will be individuals who are blessed to come in contact with me.  Certainly my own life has been shaped and blessed this way, by the individual care and attention of good people (family not at all being least among them).
So, not an exciting post, I realize. But such is life after such weeks as my previous one.

رمضان كريم

“The great glory of travel, to me, is not just what I see that’s new to me in countries visited, but that in almost every one of them I change from an outsider looking in to an insider looking out.”

― Clara E. LaughlinTraveling Through Life


In front of the Treasury at Petra

Yes, I realize it’s been a while since I last posted.  Sorry about that.  Ramadan started a couple weeks ago, and I was fasting along with everyone else, and so after work most days the only thing I’ve wanted to do is take a nap.  So yeah, I haven’t written on here for a while and I’m behind on my homework.  Happy Ramadan!

Honestly though, Ramadan is pretty cool in a lot of ways.  If you’re not super familiar with Ramadan, it’s the holiest month on the Islamic calendar (which is based on the lunar cycle, so Ramadan falls at a slightly different season each year).  It was in the month of Ramadan that the prophet Muhammad received the first revelation of the Qur’an.  During Ramadan Muslims fast from sunrise til sunset.  Fasting includes abstention from food, drink, smoking and sexual relations.  Because we’re at the height of the summer right now, Ramadan this year includes a longer fast each day than other times of the year. Each morning around 3am the masaharji (the Awakener) walks around the neighborhood banging on a drum and yelling “La ilaha ila Allah! (There is no god but God)” to wake people up so they can grab a bite to eat before sunrise.  Once the call to prayer for the dawn prayer sounds, the fast is supposed to begin.  People fast until the evening call to prayer at dusk.  Work hours at the Ministry have been shortened during Ramadan, and a lot of people simply become nocturnal throughout the month.  It’s kind of funny to walk around at midnight and see kids playing soccer in the street, or find major traffic jams on main roads at 1am.  A lot of Muslims set a goal for themselves to read the entire Qur’an during Ramadan and it’s a time when people are supposed to be more conscientious and kind to the poor.  Zakkat, or Islamic alms, are usually given during Ramadan and people are often eager to invite guests to share Iftar, the evening meal to break the fast, with their families.  I’ve had Iftar with a couple of people and it’s really cool.

Obviously, I’m not a Muslim.  However, I wanted to participate in the fasting of Ramadan because, well, this is what I’m studying, right?  I’ve been learning about the culture, religion, and language of the Middle East for years now, but reading about and discussing a topic is never the same thing as living it.  So this is my chance to truly experience the month of Ramadan in an Islamic country.  That being said, after fasting for two weeks I think I’m gonna have to call it quits.  The end of this summer is quickly approaching and I need to be thinking of things like PT tests looming just around the corner, and it is unfortunately difficult to stay in shape while you’re fasting.  But I’m glad I’ve had the chance to experience these past couple of weeks.

This last week on Tuesday I was invited to have Iftar at the orphanage.  It was nice because I didn’t have to go in to work until 3pm that day.  Alright! Also, it was great getting to spend time with the kids in a slightly less structured environment.  The meal was delicious (shawarma and Papa John’s pizza.  How’s that for a combination?), and after everyone finished eating there was some kind of performer who played some extremely loud music and sang along.  He had the kids come up front with him and dance.  They seemed to be having the time of their lives and it was great seeing them so happy.  There’s a small crew of 7-10 year-old boys who seem have attached themselves to me, and so while most everyone was dancing around they were using me as a human jungle gym.  Good thing I have lots of practice with that thanks to my little brothers.  Anyway, after an hour or so I decided to leave, but the party was showing no signs of letting up any time soon.  That was a fun night.

The siq that serves as an entrance to Petra

Up until this weekend, things were going along pretty normally without much change.  Work, speaking appointments, a nap if I could get it in and oftentimes going to the restaurant across the street in the evenings to watch the World Cup matches.  This past Friday morning (early morning) we headed off on a three-day trip to Petra, Wadi Rum, and Aqaba.  Yes, I went to all these places last fall, but that trip was one of the highlights of that semester, so I’ve been really looking forward to going back.  We got to Petra around 10am and only had 4 hours to spend there.  This was pretty different from last fall when we had an entire day to explore Petra.  That was a little disappointing, because there are so many cool hikes there, and I didn’t get to re-visit my favorite places.  It was still really awesome though.  The other big difference between this trip and the one last fall is that the last time I was here it was late October, not the hottest part of the summer.  It was HOT this time around.  Well, it was hot last time around too, but not like this.

The Monastery at Petra

We left Petra around 3 in the afternoon and headed to Wadi Rum.  I loved Wadi Rum last time I went there and was disappointed that we only spent part of a day there.  This time we spent the night, and it was really, really cool.  Wadi Rum is where the movie Lawrence of Arabia was filmed (along with several other major films) and, in my opinion, is the paragon of desert beauty.  We got there in the early evening and settled into our “campsite.”  Really, it was more like a desert resort, with small wooden “tents” for sleeping in.  We then went on a jeep ride out into the desert, and watched the sun set out there.  It was seriously so great.  We went back to the camp for dinner and then most of us decided to go out on a night walk around 10pm.  I had heard that the stars out there at nighttime are amazing to see.  I was a little disappointed though, because the moon was nearly full and drowned out most of the stars.  It was seriously so bright.  Even though we were out in the middle of nowhere, in the middle of the night we didn’t need flashlights at all and were able to see everything very clearly.  I don’t really know how to describe it, it was almost a surreal experience: walking out into the vast immensity of the desert at night, completely illuminated by the moon, nothing moving but the wind.  It was like I almost expected my spirit animal to walk out of the distance and come talk to me about my life quest or something.  That was a really cool experience.

Overlook of our campsite at Wadi Rum

The following morning at dawn we went on a short camel ride out a little ways into the desert and then back.  While I didn’t appreciate waking up that early after spending a good part of the night walking around, I did appreciate catching the cool hours of the morning before the heat of the day could strike.  Camels are weird.  Watching them stand up, lay down, walk around, even just sit and chew you can’t help but wonder where these weirdos came from.  They’re seriously total goobers.

Just some normal traffic

About mid-morning we loaded up and headed the rest of the way down to the south end of the country, the city and gulf of Aqaba.  You would think a coastal town would be cooler, right? Not in Aqaba. That place was roasting.  It’s a beautiful place though.  That afternoon we spent on the southern beach, which was very rocky and almost impossible to walk on barefoot.  My favorite part of that day, and probably one of the highlights of the whole trip for me was after we headed back to the main part of the city and its much-nicer-to-walk-on beach.  There was a guy there with a glass-bottom boat who offered to take us out for an hour for 15 dinar.  We puttered around the gulf for a while, looking at coral and fish and even a tank that was sunk a little ways off the shore.  The best part though was when he took it out to some deeper water and anchored it and let us jump off and swim around.  I dunno what it was about that moment, but I had such a great time.  I’ve decided that if my career aspirations don’t pan out the way I hope I’m just gonna move to Aqaba and work on a glass-bottom boat for the rest of my life.  I think I’d enjoy that immensely.
The nearly full moon at Wadi Rum at sunset

After heading back to our hotel and showering, we went out for dinner.  Surprise, surprise, contrary to expectations it somehow seemed to get hotter once the sun went down.  That wind blowing off the desert was fierce. It was seriously like walking around inside an oven.  Anyway, we still had a good time.  After a good night’s sleep, we spent most of the following morning/early afternoon snorkeling at the south beach.  This was the second time I’ve ever gone snorkeling (the first time being the last time I was in Aqaba), and while I accidentally swallowed more salt water than I care for it was a lot of fun.  The ocean is a pretty incredible place.  Totally worth getting my back sunburned (to my mother: yes I did put on sunscreen, but it only did so much for me).
Jeep ride in Wadi Rum

After about a five-hour bus ride we made it back to Amman about 9pm last night (just in time to clean up a bit and watch the World Cup final. Yeah yeah!).  You know, despite the tedium of it, I really enjoy long drives.  I love seeing different landscapes and passing through small towns and wondering about the lives of the people who live in those places.  And I have to say, there’s not much to compare with driving up the east coast of the Dead Sea, watching the sun sink behind the Judean hills on the other side as you listen to some good music you recently discovered.  Life is pretty cool sometimes.
Sunset at Wadi Rum